Super Mario

This is an unusual way to launch 2015 but as I have said, I plan to write about whatever pops up each week and this struck me as important.  For one thing, Mario Cuomo was the governor of my home state, New York, and for another he is the kind of progressive that I aspire to be.

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As the President said recently,

President Obama, in a statement Thursday night, called Mr. Cuomo “a determined champion of progressive values, and an unflinching voice for tolerance, inclusiveness, fairness, dignity, and opportunity.”

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I do plan to discuss the concept of progressive ideals in a future post, but suffice it to say here I think the chief characteristic of people who call themselves progressives in a political vein currently is fairness.  As Governor Cuomo said in his famous 1984 Democratic Convention speech, as long as there is inequity, America’s story is not of a shining city on a hill, as Reagan would have us believe so we don’t feel we have responsibility for those who are not as fortunate, but a tale of two cities, one for the privileged, one for the disadvantaged. Never has that message been more true or relevant than in 2015.

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Privilege and advantage come in many guises.  Privilege can derive from the luck of birth, i.e., having two, loving, kind, intelligent, educated, tolerant parents who administer justice in the home in such a way that each member of the family unit is cared for according to his needs and respected according to her abilities.  Advantage can mean being born in a part of the country or at a time in history where and when the least among us is given, not a hand out, but a hand up so s/he has a level field on which to grow and realize potential. Or it can simply be that you were born a white Anglo Saxon Protestant.

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This goes back to parenting.  If your parents gave you unconditional love and protection, as they should.  If they made your early environment a safe, nurturing, supportive place, you are more likely to extend those qualities to others, including and especially your own children. When the earliest messages you receive are positive, encouraging, gentle, strong but tender, you will trust the world, other people, your own abilities and will more readily mimic those characteristics as your develop and mature.

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Not all of us are lucky enough to have these positive and formative experiences.  For those of us who did not, it is our responsibility to start undoing thoughts, habits, and behaviors that work against being open and sensitive to all that is around us, human and non. We need to re-tool ourselves.

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I admired Mario Cuomo, not only for these beliefs and sentiments but for his unwillingness to compromise just to gain personal advantage.  Had he run for the Presidency in 1988, he would have secured the Democratic nomination and would likely have vanquished George H. W. Bush.  But he felt New York needed him more and was not comfortable compromising values just to tack to the center to win an office, as both Bill Clinton and Barak Obama had done. Either you stand for something you really believe in or you don’t. Cuomo stood by his convictions and in foregoing the highest office in the land, fulfilled a perhaps more important role, that of keeping the progressive message alive from that day to this.

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It will likely be taken up soon by someone like Bill de Blasio who I could easily see being President some day. Right now, the baton Mario Cuomo handed over is being held in escrow by Elizabeth Warren who, while being someone I would whole-heartedly support for President, cannot win a national election in 2016, controlled as it is by international corporate interests. Neither of Cuomo’s sons will ever be elected to that office.  Andrew Cuomo may go down in history as the worst “Democratic” governor of New York. Christie and Cuomo have got a strange lock on two important blue states but neither will ever be President.

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I won’t tout all Mario Cuomo’s virtues here.  Those who have eyes can find the data elsewhere. I merely want to emphasize that kindness, generosity, intelligence, education (yes! no reverse snobbery here, please), compassion, empathy, and courage are the hallmarks that made Cuomo a beloved Governor and a towering figure in the progressive movement.  I, personally, am sorry he had to leave us now, when we really need him to help put this country back on the right side of history.

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Images: Valencia, Beth Byrnes archives




11 Comments on “Super Mario”

  1. Beth,
    Gorgeous pictures and love the way they just look painted. 🙂

    Thanks for the insight on Mr. Cuomo. I never knew about him, and in 1988 I voted for Reagan (I has a senior in High School and all fired to hope for the best). Yes, right now we don’t have anything ‘shiny’ on the Hill. And he sounds like someone we could have had for another 10 years.

    Here’s to the baton being passed on and hope that another thought provoking and aware politician who has the community at heart makes a trail and guides us to a more ‘brighter’ future.


  2. I thought of you when I heard of his passing. He was someone you can honestly say of him “he was a good man.” In the deepest meaning of that phrase.

    I agree with you about Warren. Because of her goodness, she would never win. I really don’t know that she would ever run – I certainly can’t see her playing the games she’d have to play to receive the nomination.


    • Thank you for saying all this.

      It is ironic that both Mario Cuomo and Elizabeth Warren embody all the traits and behaviors that Conservatives claim to stand for, like bootstrapping from poverty, making money, being in stable marriages, raising families, being religious, living moral lives, and yet they are both rejected by that group. It shows me that they only recognize and admire these characteristics in people who work for the establishment.

      I think both Warren and Cuomo feel/felt too humble to take on the world. What a pity.


      • When you write, ” I think both Warren and Cuomo feel/felt too humble to take on the world. What a pity.”, it resonated with me after reading the quote below from an article in The Daily Beast.

        In July 2004, Cuomo was interviewed by his old pal, Tim Russert, for Tim’s CNBC show. Here is a snapshot of who Mario Cuomo was:

        Tim Russert: Do you wish you had run for president someday?

        Mario Cuomo: No

        Russert: Never?

        Cuomo: No. I don’t think I was good enough to be a president and you – you know, I – I really – I remember an editor – I won’t share his name but you can guess who it is. He was at The Times, and he says, ‘I don’t think you got the fire in the belly.’ I said, ‘Show me a politician with fire in the belly and I’ll spritz his mouth with seltzer.’ I said, ‘Who – who wants fire in their belly? That’s ego.’ I – I never felt that way about the presidency, as you – as you probably know. I – to – to say to yourself, Tim, that you’re better than all the other people out there who are available to lead this country, and therefore much of the world, that takes a little more self confidence than I ever had, I think. “

        Mario Cuomo wasn’t wrong about too many things in his life. But he was wrong right there.


        • So true and apt, JM. The kinds of people who don’t think they are good enough, are the very people we need to lead us. Compare this attitude to the hubris and smugness of the Palins and Cruzes of the world. I miss Cuomo already.


  3. Reblogged this on verawrites and commented:
    To see what’s there is not a gift, it’s merely vision. To show what’s there in ways you could not see is art. Beautiful art, and lovely words to honour a man I would have liked to know…


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